To whom it may concern...

If there is one thing that I have learned in my relatively short time here on this earth, it's that every story has two sides. And historically, the side that generally gets told is the side coming from the person with the biggest mouth. Leaving the quieter, less confrontational, less in High School person with a decision to make. Either they can yell more loudly than the first and defend themselves or they can just hope that those people considering themselves true friends and family will care enough and be courteous enough to ask for the quieter version of things. Because they know the person and they know the nature of her personality... There simply MUST be an explanation.

And so I say to those of you who obviously care a little bit because you are here visiting my blog-- if you have been told or have read something about me in the last week that causes a question of my moral character to come into your mind...PLEASE come talk to ME!!! Because I tend to be a bit on the shy and timid side of SELF DEFENSE and I tend not to want to attract attention to myself at all costs. And because you know me... you must know that I am anything but malicious or psycho so please consider the possibility that I just may have a story of my own to tell. And when all is said and done you may even find yourself amused and giggling at the hypocrisy of the whole saga.

But please oh please whether you decide to draw your own conclusions based only on hearing one pathetic side OR whether you decide to get to the bottom of things by hearing both versions... leave my darling husband out of this because anyone who professes to know him (I mean holy cow... even my family, who have only known him for what??? 15 months at the most...) know without a shadow of a doubt that BLOGGER, in particular "certain" BLOGSPOTS would be the very last thing he would be interested in looking at on the web. Some people REALLY need to get over themselves. For crying out loud... I have to BEG him to look at our blog and he is the subject of almost every entry. Anyone who thought for one second that he logged onto the the Internet and BLOGGED should be really embarrassed because you really don't know him at all. Next time, before you call someone out on something, you should really do more investigating. And he'll take his apology in the form of a text or an email.

So... fiance's, wherever you are, you can TOTALLY relax. Back yourself away from your keyboard because I can assure you that you are the ONLY man interested in your girl. (You might take some comfort in knowing that he wasn't even interested in her when he was supposed to be and he certainly isn't NOW). It's me and me alone who is interested in the talents, beauty and class that she possesses. Or maybe I am just plain nosey just as much as all the people, including HER, who visit my blog on a daily basis and read my stories and don't leave comments and have every right to do so because we all knew when we chose to "toot our own horns" on the World Wide Web we ran the risk of catching the attention and maybe impressing people that we both know and don't know. And maybe even gain an unintended fan or two. I am proud of the friends I have made through blogging. And I am proud of the blogs I choose to follow, those women help me to be a better person.

But to the reader of this particular blog... if you have ever visited a site of someone who you didn't know but who completely impressed you because they are simply impressive and caused you to want to know more about them and drew you in with their personality or spirit put yourself in the same boat as me.

And whatever you choose to call me, and however you choose to label me and however you choose to publicly hurt or embarrass me, I can promise that never at any time did my interest in any blog intend to pose a threat!!! Believe whatever you want to about me, try to convince others of it too, if you must. But if you could possibly grow up for just a second and try very hard to get out of high school and pause to let yourself consider another alternative, you could simply just choose to be flattered. It is a good thing to know that others admire you for the person that you are. Ultimately, isn't that why we start blogs and exaggerate the events in our lives in the first place?